was this wise?

Ok for those of you who know about me and my boyfriend...well i kind of let him go. I really really like him but there where complications

1. Distance: He lives in Cali. I live in PA

2. Men will be men: I mean I'm just holding him back hes a guy you know he cane be strun down by comitment

3. Religon: The fact that im muslim and hes not pressures us greatly. Because im muslim Im not giving him and if IT (you now what i mean)

4. Parents: My parents dont like him. His parents dont like me. My parents hate him because
A. He act thugish and my father doesnt want me to get caught up in that (like how can i not! )
B. My dad wants my to get married to and i quote 'a intelligent knowledgeable male ' you know what i asked him when he said that... "wheres my dad? You killed him didnt you?" not once in my life have i ever head my dad speak like a buissness white man!

5. To tell you the truth i think he was falling out of love with me... O well time to move on to the next guy ^.^

Its alright though I knew i would let him go sooner or later because he just didnt seem like the type who could handle being settled down or have a muslim for a girlfriend you know it would (half way did) ruin his pimpin style lol but do you think what i did was ok? I honestly did but i wana know everyones mind set ^.^

i think that was the best thing to do because a. long distance is hard b. religious differences are something to considering..and just c. you said yourself he was falling out of love..

i know it might kind of suck..but i think you did the right thing. ^^

i think you did the write thing ... and if it was ment to be you'll meet agian =]]]

I think you did the right thing, Jammy. Your parents and his parents dislike the arrangement, the distance is a big complication, and if he wasn't too into it anymore, then why keep to it?

So I think you did the right thing!