girls plz help

what would you do if your BFFL lied to you alll the months that you've known each other? would you foregive them right away or would you just be like no i wont foregive you? or what?? plz help me here..

well...id forgive her...but like...make sure EVERYTHING would be cleared up so the same thing wouldnt happen again...

yea.. but my BFFL is a guy.. and i kind of like him.. lol so i thought..

well, it depends on what he lied about???

^^ yea

mean, if it's like a REALLY Big lie, or a REALLY little lie, or just a confusing one, it really depends on what the lie is

It all depends on what he lied about and how much it really affected you and how much you truely care about what he said.

he lied about who he was and stuff.. like he made up a whole story and like lied about his family and himself and what he does and stuff...

he goes to PA cyber...

Then umm well yes he made a bad choice but hey, he's just a kid, I'm sure you lied before, everyone lies. Is it that Steve kid?

no.. lol not steve lol

well you'll never be able to completly forgive him no matter what ....... but yeah just get everything out in the open and then don't trust him on everything he says anymore then you won't have to worry about it .... but yeah i wanna know what he lied to you about and what .... i don't really give on who but maybe we could give you better advice ya know

well...if he said his family was all cool & stuff...& it really wasnt..her was probly just trying 2 impress u....id have 2 kno the whole story to really get it...buuut yea...

u can pm me if u want...but my best advice that i keep...stay away from boys...their trouble...[my cuzin is ALWAYS rite...haha..usually]

lol thanks emily i think i will PM ya later. but right now im waiting for my ride to go babysitting lol

guys who lie will let you down, continuously.
then they'll act like jerks to u later!
let him go.

ugh, sorry. haha..i just know these things from self-experience.
you're better off without him.

thanks girls! that helps a lot!!
Love yas!

I've had the same thing happen except it was a girl and she lives out west and we were penpals/mostly phone pals. we talked on the phone almost everyday for hours and hours. Then one day she started making up stories like she had cancer andeating issues and stuff to make me feel sorry 4 her or soemthing idk. btu anyways i stopped talking to her for awhile. then in dec i called her up and asked if she would start over so i gave her another chance. but we aren't as close and i dont tell her secrects because i cant trust her.

but this guy. he doesn't sound honest to me. you should probably avoid him. thats what i would do.