anyone got any tips on fathering?

i did something and might have a LONG cosequence in the form of a baby, so anyone got any words of advice if im going to be a father?

PM me if your going to tell me how much of an idiot i am, dont feel like reading it on here in public, plus you can chew my backside out if you want, and i will be the only one to see, anyways, life=unpredictable

Well, I would tell you how much of an idiot you are but you said you don't want that, so, yeah.

Ugh. This morning in church they had a whole hour of talking about what it means to be a father, and I can only remember bits and peices...

Well, my personal advice is to be mature about and take responsibility of the situation, and if it actually comes to raising a kid, you should always be there for them. That's really the only advice I can give. I can't think of anything else...

I'd rather not put my thoughts down and get into an arguement.

bikingismylife wrote:PM me if your going to tell me how much of an idiot i am, dont feel like reading it on here in public, plus you can chew my backside out if you want, and i will be the only one to see, anyways, life=unpredictable

well, first of all u realized u made a mistake , thats a good step, and your welling to acept the resposibiallties of being a father. thats good too, but besides that i can't help all i can say is well, your doomed. this somthing u should talk with your parents about , or somone certified and has experence with this who can help u. wish u the best.

bikingismylife wrote:PM me if your going to tell me how much of an idiot i am

I'm very tempted to do so.


Although, I am glad to see that you are willing to take responsibility.

... I have a lot to say, not enough time to say it all.

That was a pretty big mistake you made, first of all. Do you know if you're going to have a kid or not?

Second of all, do you realize who you're asking? You're posting a question on a little kids' forum on the internet. Run by kids. Even if any of us here were parents, we would still not be the best people for giving advice. You don't want advice on parenting from us. Find some real parents.

Though that doesn't mean I don't have anything to say about parenting. It's obviously more than just, "raise the kid, get him to grow up, get a job, and get his own life." Let me say one thing, first: patience. I'm guessing that you'd be facing a lot of hardships with your family, your life in general--if you were to have a son. It's clear that everyone does, and I'm sure you've seen that keeping families together is pretty hard. People quit. Keep your patience and don't quit, whatever happens, no matter how hard things go. Care for others, even if it's not your problem. Keep your patience, and raise your kid as think best for him or her, and not for you.

That is, if you are going to have a kid. Other than that, I just have to say that what you did was pretty stupid, and I hope you use more sense throughout the rest of your life.

Again, seek better advice from actual experienced parents who know what they're doing. Farewell in life.

wait.. i read your thing again, is there a chance shes not pregnant?

yeah, she took a test and isnt preggers according to that test, but i dont even know how much longer we will date, im being told by her best friend that she is cheating on me

ah.. lucky break, sorry about her cheating on u though, but at least she's not pregnent. lets learn from this situation and keep it in your pants intill your married, alright guys?

shes cheatin on u..... its not yours if she ends up pregnant...go on maury

like anyone does that anymore nate the fact condoms went up in price wont help

I say either go to college, or put it up for adoption.

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