I NEED THE HELP OF THE GIRLS Plz!

OK when a girl says it isnt you, when she breaks up with you. Does that imply it was me? Like did i Do somthing wronge cuz, basicly thats what happend yesterday =/

Its like SUnday shes all YA happy go lucky then Tuesday she calls me tells me shes realy sorry but we should take a break and see other people. And she said it wasnt me.... It was very unlike her.

well thats the lamest line i mean it could go either way i mean some people lie and sum people dont idk its diffgicult do u think u did nething??

nothing i didnt do anything like meen or somthing to make her mad... IDK oh well =/ At least we are still friends...now its going to be kinda awkward at church =p

Rofl.

'Take a break and see other people'

She does realize you guys are like, 15 right?

Anyways.

Dont sweat it.

It completly depends on the girl to what that means, so, oonce things blow over, you can ask her, but I wouldnt go ask her now.

Lol.

ya im not guna and im not like upset about it or anything i just dont know if it was somthing i did thats wha tmakes me mad... OH well . thanks 4 the help pplz

ummmmm this might just me me but she usually when people say "take a break" there's someone else .... and you didn't do anything

thats what i was thinking.... Well thanks for the clearing that up for me you guys... imean gals lol

Thanks.

lol.

A Zach.

Uhm...wow...normally, when girls say 'it's not you it's me' they really are just being rude enough to mean that it is you, even when it's not. Girls can be really rude sometimes, honestly.

But yeah. Like Daph said, dont sweat it. And if you dont think you did anything, than you most likely didn't, but if you think there is a chance that you might've you can ask her, just to clear things up a bit more.

Anywho. Chyeap yep. Goood luck A Zach

Yea, like both of them said, I wouldn't worry about it.

If she is lame enough to use that line, she's prolly not worth it anyway

haha, I mean wow.

But if you don't think you did anything to upset her, it might have been that she likes someone else, or that she felt things were slowly drifting apart...or things just weren't working, and she wanted a quick excuse to explain why you two should break up, so she said 'It's not you, it's me' lol.

lame -shakes head-

i think that she wasn't sure if she loved u or not and wanted to make sure by seeing other people. Because if she doesn't get the same feelings she gets with other people that she does with u, than she knows that she really does love u..hope that helps!

zach i tought you my stud ways this should not be happening to you....lol

hate to say it..but, the "it's not you, it's me" stuff, is just an excuse out of a relationship that seems to be going nowhere.
honestly, it could or couldn't have been about you, and she feels as if somethings holding her back, but other than that. it's just the easiest drop out of a relationship

Well it depends on how the relationship went.

Stop grave digging. 0_o