HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!

ok i told this guy to stop flirtingg with me cause it wwas getting out of hand (he goes to pacyber so i never met him) he told me he luved me and i told him i luved him then he started doing stuff like *takes off her clothes* and it deffinately was getting scary. I told him that i was sorry but i diddnt luv him and a bunch of other things well he replies to my email and said ok well im gonna go die now this is to much for me. and i replied and told him not to kill himself and i was really sorry and i sent that at 7:00 this morning and havent heard back from him wat do i do im scared i feel terrible i just wanna crawl in a hole and die myself cause i just hurt someone so much that he killed himself well i dont no that he did but i think he will i mean he is a goth (not that that matters) and he cuts and said he had tried to killl himself once im really scared wat do i do help neone have suggestions???
Jill

I do.

He's just another jerk. He's not going to kill himself. If he does, let him kill himself and be happy. But he won't. This "Oh no, now that you refused to love me, I will be depressed and kill myself. Oh no. Will you be sorry? Bye. Bye forever" happens all the time. And it's mostly false...just jerks without lives trying to make you feel sorry for them.

Or maybe it's just your imagination. Ignore the emails. Block him...

wow ur rite i just wasnt thinkking straight but i still have a feeling he will lol i may be crazy but o well lol. and how is it my imagination......just wondering

if hes online looking for a gf then he deserves to die. Thats just sad...i dont know whats wrong with ppl who try to do cyber (Censored)... which is what that *takes off shirt* thing was.

dang sensored... ....

pitbulls wrote:but i still have a feeling he will

I think that a lot, too. I feel sorry for people. I'm the type of person who can't help but feel sorry for people who whine. More than likely, however, this person just wants some of your attention and uses whining/etc to try to make you feel sorry and give in. Weak people like me will feel sorry and probably start apologizing like crazy, but all he needs is to get outside and do something.

and if it is true, then someone died. you stated ur opinion and what u thought. It was his choice to decide to base his actions off of your thoughts. If he dies, then oh well. He commited suicide. you had nothing to do with it.

I agree with M and in a way pants that's just perverted.

pants: i toadally agree i guess i was just despret i just havent been thinking lately and he went MUCH farther then the shurt it was nasty i mean im usually fine with it but dang first day i met him bang i couldnt beleve i went along with it im such an idiot lol and ur rite i mean i almost commited suicide but then i remembered all the stuff that people say that r good (which isnt alot) and i realize that my life isnt so bad compared to a ton of people

unnamed: u sound alot llike me lol thats exactly wat i did it was so stupid lol

ok well i know this kid and i haven't talked to him really but he seems cool and i don't think he would kill himself ... but i understand that it waas getting way out of hand and that it was getting totally unaprropriate .... but he might've not gotton on the computer yet .... but i don't think it's right to wish somone dead boys ... or if they die oh well ... that would just make him more sad than he already is .... and the guy that jilly beans talking about pm me if you wanna talk .... or jilly ... just take it down a notch you know .... and i used to think goth people were really freaky but after being in cyber school and talking to them and acctually befriending them .... their just people ... and their cool ... so it doesn't make a diffrence .... but anyways i just wanted to say to you jill ... that you did the right thing .... to the guy that jilly's talking about ... take it down a couple knotches and bring it down to friends ... and to the guys that are replying be respectfull and don't wish or whatever that they do die .... it's not right

lullaby wrote:but i don't think it's right to wish somone dead boys ... and to the guys that are replying be respectfull and don't wish or whatever that they do die .... it's not right

Ehem. All I said was, "He's not going to kill himself. If he does, let him kill himself and be happy. But he won't." Nothing about wishing for him to die.

yeah but why would you be happy that someone killed themself ?

Were not wishing he'll die were just saying if he does it's not Jill's fault It's his own fault. And I don't think M is saying to be happy that he killed himself nessecarily I think he's saying just to not blame yourself and be happy and not think about it to much and just get on with your life.

it's just the way you said it ... i don't want anyone to get offended

Here is my view on it:

He is just trying to get your attention. Nothing more. My cousin had done and sometimes still does the same thing. If her mom wouldnt let her go to the mall she would go cut herself then threaten to kill herself. I know, a bit dramatic. But just dont give into to it. Tell him he was too it was too unappropriate and that you wont be allowed to talk to him if he does it again. He should stop and dont worry he will reply, he might just be busy.

yeah .... i'm not even supost to be on here right now .... *looks right then left* .... *puts her nose back into class* ... ... =P

lullaby wrote:yeah but why would you be happy that someone killed themself ?

Sorry, I'll re-word it to fit what I meant. "Let him kill himself happily." Let him threaten comitting suicide, all he's doing is trying to make you feel sorry for him. Even if he does kill himself, he'll be happy about it, thinking he must have made you so sorry...

That's what I mean.

Ok, if this guy is saying that kind of sick stuff you definitely should NOT talk to him. He's probably not going to kill himself, but if he is there is nothing that you can do about it. It isn't your fault and you should stay out of it. He's harrassing you and it is illegal so block him and don't talk to him and you should probably tell someone (an adult) who can do something about it.

yes, I wholeheartedly agree with M, for once. Really, he's right. Those kind of people have hung around me before...and you know, at first I felt bad for them....I didn't want to dismiss them completely, but in the end I was forced to. So, you have to do what you have to do, and never EVER let anyone force you into anything like that. It's happened to a lot of my friends and it's really stupid, some of these people online...pfft. ignore him if he bugs you about it, and if he does eventually email you or something, I would suggest not answering him. It's better to cut off contact than to leave any loose ends.

wow thanks guyz wow im surprised u acctually cared well i will take and use all of ur advice thank u soooooooooo much and leana i was a goth one time so im not scared lol goths rock i just miss being one but i needed to leave the black and become a new person that acctually talked

lol ... i said i used to be scared ... lol ... not anymore ! <3333 goths rock my checkered soxs !

i've never been scared of goths lol.. which is kinda sad lol

lol goths ROCK lol

lol ya i have to agree there

just that they don't talk ! ... it annoys me

ok ya thats a bit annoying lol but other then that they are awesome lol