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Oh my.. if he's into drugs and alcohol forget it. But don't feel bad or guilty for liking him, it isn't your fault you have a crush on him. But, if it were me, I would force myself to stop liking him. I know it seems hard but it is possible to make yourself stop liking someone. It takes a long time sometimes, but you need to do this. When you start thinking about him you've got to consciously make an effort to think about something else and do that until your feelings for this guy go away. But you shouldn't completely keep everything bottled up inside, so if you really need to you can talk with someone about it or write in your journal about it or something... but it's just that you shouldn't allow him to take over your thoughts completely.

Hope my advice helps, and I hope everything works out.

Like what Kristi said, you should try to forget about him. I know you, Brittany, and you like to help people, and it's great that you wanna help him, but he needs professional help if he's into substance abuse.

i agree with what tehy sed...except i cant relle give any of my own advice becuz i've never truly fallen for a guy b4. lol

so how are things with this guy now?