Please read very important!!A life is at stake!!

my cuz who is like my twin bro has started taking weed. he wont last with out me being there but the problem is he lives in cali and i can only talk to him he called me at 9 and he was totally smashed!!! he said "serena (dont ever in your life call me this or i will kill you) Im totally smashed. I didnt mean to do it its just ive been thinking about you and me and oma(Our grandma who died a year ago. but she IS like a mother to us) And i just ......idk." you see he calls me everyday and he hasnt called me for 2 weeks and i emailed him everyday and called but he wouldnt return anyof them and he was scaring me tonight was the first time he called and i was crying so hard he was crying and were talking right now weve been talkin for 3 hours. But how can i be there for him if im not there? pease this is very important!

Do you have any other relatives who keep in contact with him? They might tell you about him.

a lot of poeple i know have/or do weed .... thankfully it's not addictive but it can hurt you real bad ... i don't know what to tell you right at the moment but as soon as i ask my friends or what to do other than that i'll get back to you A.S.A.P ! i just wanted you to know that i'm here and i'm just waiting untill 3:30 for everyone to get out of school ....

p.s. are you german ? you called your grandmother oma and that's german

yes my mother and grand mother are german. im 1/2 german 1/2 black....um yah most of my family to do take drugs but corys my twin i would die if he keeps doing it!

yeah i know what you mean .... and that's so cool about you being german ! do you speak it at all ?

HAHAHAHAHA!!! no way! my cuz wants to i would reather speack spanish whitch im learning and i speack some japanese. i was learning from my mom friend who is japanese. Shes so nice shes helped me and my cuz out a lot shes like a sister.

haha ... i'm like 50% german, 50% everything else ... lol ... and i lived in germany for like 3 years when i was in preschool so i know a lot of german .... and i want to learn spanish, french, and itialian !

Ohkay, here is the advice I have for you:

If there are any family members that live around him that you can come in contact with then come in contact with them. Ask them to make sure that they make an effort to keep him busy so that he doesnt have to time to do weed. Another thing you could do is bribe him. Ask him to stop for two weeks to see how he likes his life. And if he doesnt like that idea I dont know what to say. I am not very good at this advice thing.

no one lives anywhere near him the only family he talks to is me. the others are to snotty. and his mom does weed to. If i was i cali It would be so much easyer for him. And my cuz is soft he doesnt like his life any how im the only person who kept him from suicide and other things im the only person he talks to im the only person who understands him.

Hmmmm..... this is a tough situation.
Would it be alright if I pray for you and for him?

no prob...prayer is all i seem to have for him........and i dont like that I mean i love to pray its just i need to do something to knw its going to be ok

dang!!! i live by philly and i've seen what drugs can do to one's life. You should talk to ur cousin about going in to rehab and detoxing

If you say ur cousin is like ur twin, u should go out and visit him while he's detoxing, you can go out and visit him,or he can move to a rehab center by you so you can call him and make himn feel better while he's detoxing, because when u detox, ur body uses up ALL of the things that are bad for ur body and it is very painful.

O i got him off the drugs -_- i went over there and kicked his butt so hard it knocked the thought out. And i know he stoped because i have people -_- and they tell me everything he does. no lie BUT thanks for your advice ^_^ i was felling a bit better when you guys where telling me all this stuff. I thought about it then i convinved my dad to let me go there and when i got there i didnt give him no hug at the train sation I gave him one right on the kisser and told him we will finish this when we get to his house. -_- i was (Censored) off!

at lkeast he's off them now. thats good. but now he needs to stay off that ****

Wow.
tahts cool hes clean now

yea, but now he needs to stay off of it.

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just cause he's off it for now, doesn't mean he will STAy off it. he needs to stay clean for the rest of his life

its smokeing weed not taking it and he needs to stop smoking it not get off of it....use the correct terms..it sounds retarded when you use wrong ones...and dont post in this if you dont knnow what your talking about...all drugs are addictive...no drug isnt thats why they are ilegial because they are so addictive

no trust me weed is addictive...just like cigerettes snuff crack herione and all the other drugss

yes, I do know what I'm talking about rob. Oh, by the way, snuff and crack are the same

dude, I kniw what I'm talking about, ur the one who sounds retareded. I 've seen what drugs do first hand. DON'T TELL ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M TALKIHG ABOUT!!!!!!!

Bluewaterlily: I combined your posts into one; please don't double-post.

snuff is a tabacoo product there buddy... not crack...crack as in rock cocaine..snuff is chew or chewing tabacoo whatever you perfer to call it see you just made yourself look foolish

If weed wasn't addictive, it wouldn't be a drug.
That's why drugs are called drugs, because they're addictive.