Friend Problems..

by -RiseToFall- Fri May 11, 2007 9:56 am

ok, so if u guys could help me out that would be good- so here's my story-

I have this best friend, her name is becca
we go to the same church.
becca met these 2 girls in school and they became close so she brought them to church,
then when i met them i became REALLY tight with them and now those to girls are also my bestfriends
Now for some reason, my friend ( becca) doesn't even talk to them anymore when we are together ( NO JOKE, she won't say a word to them)
and so they were all confused cuz they don't know what they did for her to treat them like that. They asked me to ask becca what was going on
and she said that she hates them and she always talks about how much she hates them..So now she rrefuses to hang out with them but they are still 2 of my bestfriends, so i can't hang out with all of them at one time and now it's jusy getting stupid so what do u think i should do? drop some1 or somthing or just keep living in the middle?

by **Dag264** Fri May 11, 2007 10:05 am

Living in the middle I think would just bring you stress.
But did your friend say why she doesn't like them anymore?
If it's for a foolish reason or no reason at all I would say just to still be friends but Don't try to be like best friends with her nemore.

by -RiseToFall- Fri May 11, 2007 10:06 am

ok thanks..that makes sense..i'll ask her

by **pitbulls** Fri May 11, 2007 10:41 am

see becca is jelous (my opinion) and all her friends wanted to do was become her friend so they could get to u (experience) id say just be in the middle or do nutthin and see wat happens i mean ull either get bec or her friends u never no trust me ive gone trew the same thing it sucks but its part of life

by **The Unnamed** Fri May 11, 2007 11:00 am

I'm pretty sure I know what's wrong and why she hates them. I've been in the same situation before, especially when I was a little kid that lived in Oakmont... I'll tell you about it, and maybe you'll understand more.

See, there were two other kids in that funny lil' neighborhood--a lil' boy, and a lil' girl. And at the time I was just a wee lil' kid, sort of like I am now. Anytime one was outside, that one and I would play something like soldiers, or house, or whatever--we had lots of fun. But if all three of us were outside at the same time, the atmosphere was a lot different. Those two were closer friends when together, and I was the little one who tagged along, trying to join in on the fun, but I was only made fun of and laughed at.

Then, this kid called Homer from Praugue moved in the neighborhood. Whenever he was around, I was counted as one of the awesomer kids like the first two I was talking about, while Homer was ridiculed and basically was stepped on all the time.

Now, I should just stop giving you a history of my life and say something more useful, so: Two friends together are good. But usually when there's three or more, one of them is going to be left out and jealous of the rest of them.

So... I don't know how to fix your problem, but I'm really sure about what the problem is and why she hates them.

by -RiseToFall- Fri May 11, 2007 11:13 am

oh ok thanks guys! you are tottaly all major helps! so thanks again..i will try everything..

by **The Unnamed** Fri May 11, 2007 11:24 am

You could try giving your friend more attention, and treat her well enough to show that she's not left out.

by -RiseToFall- Fri May 11, 2007 11:42 am

well- like the thing is- we DO include her, and the 2 other girls do too, she just doesn't wanna talk to them...and it all sucks really bad

by **The Unnamed** Fri May 11, 2007 5:29 pm

It's probably hard for her to realize that she is being included in all the fun, and not left out, then.

by PandaGurl Fri May 11, 2007 5:41 pm

The Unnamed wrote:See, there were two other kids in that funny lil' neighborhood--a lil' boy, and a lil' girl. And at the time I was just a wee lil' kid, sort of like I am now. Anytime one was outside, that one and I would play something like soldiers, or house, or whatever--we had lots of fun. But if all three of us were outside at the same time, the atmosphere was a lot different. Those two were closer friends when together, and I was the little one who tagged along, trying to join in on the fun, but I was only made fun of and laughed at.

AW! sweet sweet little M was made fun of... :'( lol

by **The Unnamed** Fri May 11, 2007 5:49 pm

Lol, that was some years ago, though. Like when I was three to seven. When I was eight I saw them again, and we were a lot more mature by that time, especially since they were older--10 and 12. But then when I came out, the 12 year old boy was nice, which made the girl run inside all frustrated-ish...XD Those were the good ol' days...

by **xoxCookieMonsterxox** Tue May 15, 2007 6:29 pm

The same thing happened to me but I was the Becca in my story. When my cousin fist moved her 7 years ago she stole ALL of my friends, not one of them wanted to talk to me(or so I thought) anymore. I confronted one of them and like we had like a 2 hour disscussion about it. It turned out that they were jealous of me to have my cousin. And after that we were all friends. So Anna, just talk to her. Invite Becca over for a sleepover or something, just her, and talk to her.

I hope that I helped!

by -RiseToFall- Tue May 15, 2007 9:04 pm

Ok thanks Brit yeah it did!

by **xoxCookieMonsterxox** Wed May 16, 2007 6:08 am

No problem! I hope everything works out!

by Guitarbo Wed May 16, 2007 8:18 am

That is rrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy weird no uffence. i have never had a problem is well ikd but that is definetly a strange problem. Maybe try to get a time when she has to talk to them idk

by Fordgurl Wed May 16, 2007 9:05 am

wow, sound like an exact senario im having right now Anna!!!
~Sam~
PS: Awesome pic

by -RiseToFall- Wed May 16, 2007 9:55 am

what?? lol..what r u talkn about sammy? and yeah is all sucks

by Fordgurl Wed May 16, 2007 10:02 am

your friend problems.... im having the same ones... lol

by -RiseToFall- Wed May 16, 2007 10:13 am

no i'm talking about the whole guy thing..lol..and what's your story?

by Fordgurl Wed May 16, 2007 10:20 am

*double checks previous post*
Idk what your talking about... Guy thing??? hmm.... Anna, you're going crazy on me.... lol

by -RiseToFall- Wed May 16, 2007 10:24 am

haha no i'm not..u were like the guys tottaly dig my pic or somthing..i think YOU are the one who is going crazy sam

by **Dag264** Wed May 16, 2007 10:28 am

she said guys dig your avatar pic

by -RiseToFall- Wed May 16, 2007 10:30 am

haha i know,,,she's crazy

by **Dag264** Wed May 16, 2007 10:31 am

Huh?
I'm lost? I think....maybe

by -RiseToFall- Wed May 16, 2007 10:36 am

u think maybe..

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